Would you ever marry a person who best fits to “ALL” the qualities (mannerism, character, hardworking, sincere, loyal, respectful, trustful…etc.) that you desire (more than every single other man you have ever seen in life), but the only problem is that s/he does not have a very rich background and is handicapped. For example, missing one leg, ear,…etc. Or anything unattractive in his /her appearance, voice…etc. which is NOT in his/her control, but s/he was born with it ? In short the person does the best what is in his / her control, but can’t do anything about any major problem in his physique or uneducated and ill mannered relatives,…etc. or **anything beyond his control.
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Btw, I don’t consider it a handicap and see nothing wrong is marrying a divorced or widowed person, but I am amazed that a lot of people unintentionally include them among the handicapped people when they consider potential rishtas. Why ?
Some even fancy all the beautiful actors / actresses without considering the fact that most of them have either gone through surgeries or do a lot of makeup and it is not appropriate to compare their looks with real life people when one wants to judge a person to be “attractive” or good looking.
*p.s. It is very easy to give an ideal answer to this question, but very difficult to give a practical one, when we sincerely put ourselves in such a situation.
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Would you ever marry a person who best fits to "ALL" the qualities (mannerism, character, hardworking, sincere, loyal, respectful, trustful....etc.) that you desire (more than every single other man you have ever seen in life), but the only problem is that s/he does not have a very rich background and is handicapped. For example, missing one leg, ear,...etc. Or anything unattractive in his /her appearance, voice...etc. which is NOT in his/her control, but s/he was born with it ? In short the person does the best what is in his / her control, but can't do anything about any major problem in his physique or uneducated and ill mannered relatives,...etc. or *anything beyond his control.
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Btw, I don't consider it a handicap and see nothing wrong is marrying a divorced or widowed person, but I am amazed that a lot of people unintentionally include them among the handicapped people when they consider potential rishtas. Why ?
Some even fancy all the beautiful actors / actresses without considering the fact that most of them have either gone through surgeries or do a lot of makeup and it is not appropriate to compare their looks with real life people when one wants to judge a person to be "attractive" or good looking.
*p.s. It is very easy to give an ideal answer to this question, but very difficult to give a practical one, when we sincerely put ourselves in such a situation.
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I married my husband cuz of his lovely personality and character. He had it all! BUT I didnt really feel that attracted to him in the first place. However the more I got to know him the more I just adored him for being the one he is!