A total deal breaker?

Lifestyle Relationships
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Re: A total deal breaker?

I guess it a total deal-maker :smiley: Educated, well-settled and decent looking guy is perfect. Being boring and quiet is nothing you canā€™t handle. Shaadi ke baad usse apne jesa bana dena :stuck_out_tongue:

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Re: A total deal breaker?

interestingā€¦

the quite/boring guy is okā€¦the ā€˜livelyā€™ / too out there guy might be flirtaciousā€¦:hmmm:

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Re: A total deal breaker?

and I thought for Girls, this would be another big plus i.e their prospective husband being quiet

wasiey bhi ager wo quiet na how tu shadi k eik-do saal main ho jata hai becharaā€¦

:chai:

PS: its a big turn off, so please propose umer sharifā€¦

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Re: A total deal breaker?

I said no to a boring guy and I spent 6 weeks trying to have a half-way decent conversation with him. He would not say a word and it drove me crazy. Weā€™d talk on the phone and unless I asked him a question - heā€™d never initiate conversation. Iā€™d ask open-ended questions which he still managed to answer with a minimum of words and then he wouldnā€™t even turn around and engage me in conversation (the easiest way being to just ask me the same question I asked him). It got to a point where I would spend the 10-15 minutes listening to myself talk and I hated that.

Being quiet does not always mean that a person a boring, but that is one possible outcome and boring is bad if it means the two people have nothing in common since it could result in a distant and unfulfilled life. The two people are co-existing, living almost parallel lives that only intersect at moments of commonalities, like children. Thatā€™s existing and not living.

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Re: A total deal breaker?

I am quiet and shy myself, sometimes i take months to open upā€¦ then how can i reject a person on the basis of these minor points. ā€¦ so its OK for me.

Well educated, well settled, and decentā€¦ aur kia chahye bhiā€¦ sub kuch tu hai bandy main.. PERFECT :biggthumb:

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Re: A total deal breaker?

I would suggest that know him first .. most of the people they arenā€™t comfortable being frank right in the first meeting. just like me .. :stuck_out_tongue:

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Re: A total deal breaker?

what else you want :konfused:

is that guy older than you?