A thought

It is an established fact that throughout our lives we have made errors of judgment that no one is aware off. Many of us commit several errors throughout our lives. Some amount to embarrassment. But who can deny that many errors we commit are our little secrets and no one knows about them. Unselfish analysis reveals that we are protected in several of our errors. Protected in the sense that so many errors we commit remain covert and hidden. Only we know about them. At times our errors come into public notice but several times (if not most) they don’t. And in that sense we are very protected and covered and veiled.

The point being that if we enjoy keeping the many secrets we have and are glad nobody but our own soul knows about them then why should we strive to reveal anyone else’s secrets should we come across them? It is sad that there are those who garner some sort of pleasure in the discovery of someone’s secrets. Even worse are those who leave no stone unturned in unveiling those secrets. Why should anyone insist on revealing the mistakes of others? Why should anyone insist on revealing the errors of others? Do we not commit faults? Does everyone know about all our weaknesses? Does anyone know most of our wrongs? If not then isn’t it only fair that we too should act as veils to cover the errors of others?

There are many who insist that everyone else’s faults are revealed. And such people spend days and nights searching for such faults. There are those who love to publicly humiliate those at fault in their presence. There are many who publicly humiliate those at fault in their absence. But there are only a few who choose to keep their friends’ faults to themselves. Even fewer who choose to keep their enemies’ faults to themselves. And very few who choose to tell no one BUT the perpetrator in the hope that he or she might understand their mistake and change their ways. But most, unfortunately, do not notice the veil covering their own weaknesses. And they do not realize the damage they do to their own souls by tearing off the veils protecting others’ weaknesses.

Be a veil that covers others just as there is a veil that covers your weaknesses!

Very well said. There is a hadith (sorry, don't have exact citation/wording right now) that states that the reward for someone who conceals the faults or sins of others will be similar to the reward for someone who has rescued a baby girl buried alive.

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Really? wow I had no idea about this hadith :) thanks for sharing.

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very nice thoughts and I wish more people thought like you :hinna:

one of the girls in my community …well now Ive moved so its not my community anymore… but she is still there and she was at the receiving end of ppl talking about her…I;ve never liked that girl…but I know for a fact that she is shareef …but one of the boys in our community started going to her hostel (not her room mind you) to get notes and help with study during the nights…and his mother was the first to spread rumors that that girl is after her son…her son had implied to that girl that he would marry her so that girl spent a lot of time helping him…but his mother she made up stories and the whole community soaked up the gossip and decided to believe it …

sometimes ppl have secrets that we should cover up but most ppl dont and that is sad and in my opinion gunaah…because nobody but allah has the right to reveal a person’s secrets and who are we to judge anyone…only someone who has not committed a single sin is in that position and none of us can claim that we are sinless

and sometimes lies are made up about individuals and ppl chose to believe those lies because its juicy gossip and it’s somehow disgustingly enjoyable to believe something bad abt somebody

it really makes me mad this part of our communities makes me disgusted

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WOW ||xx|| that is really messed up!

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i know right... i feel like she got a bad name just cuz she's a girl ...really makes me mad how she was treated by the whole community ... I dunno aaj bhi i feel disgusted when I think of that boy and his mother ...disgusting ppl

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There are all sorts of people in the world. Dimwits who think they can ruin other peoples lives like that. Saddens me to death.