A stab in the back.

Have you experienced it ? I have gone through it many a times. I will write about experiences later , please share yours if you like.
I will say it in Urdu also because Urdu has much more stab to it then English.
Kabhi kisee nay aapkey peeth main chura ghoonpa ?

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back stabbing in real or the factitious one ??

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:) yes but i dont want to recall it over n over again

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chura ghoNpna is one thing… have you met “meeThi churiyaaN” ever? :smiley:

I have met a lot of them …

We call them Diplomats in english :cb:

wellsaid:cb:

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No,because I trust very few people, and watch my step most of the time.

Mashallah , Allah aap ko nazar- a - bud say bachai. Ameen.

very smart, i dont trust people easily either. na her kisi per trust karo... no koi peechay sey choray ghonpay :p

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I have experienced both meethi churi and backstab..and oh boy! did it hurt or what!?..Alhumdulillah, I recovered from it but at the time it was just very painful to deal with. I kept it all to myself though for like 2 years or smtng and it destroyed my self-esteem and my personality as a whole because it just kept eating me up from inside that I let someone do this. I did confront it with the person and she appologized for hurting me but also said, she didn't think/feel what she did was wrong.

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I've learned a very important lesson... as nice as you wanna be to other people... they never end up appreciating it. Sadly there is no such things as a friend!

Am I one of them? :hmmm:

Very well said

True

I have been back stabbed twice. Now it’s hard to trust people.

You should NEVER trust anyone.

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so many times :(

Always and everyone.

I am used to it.

But it is contagious.....lolz :D

Most of the people have their own inferiority complex....

Never mind it.

Do your best always.... for the sake of Allah...........
Allah will reward you for your good deeds sooner or latter.

Cheers

I was backstabbed by someone i trusted so much. now after a year or so, still i think of it everyday. i never wanted to see that person's face again yet i have to face everyday,. when i see that person, i feel the pain again.

i can easily trust people now i am trying to change this.

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I dont trust people easily.

we all are complaining of others. but we are not angels. we also back stab many people intentionally or unintentionally.

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many times....per girtay hain she-sawar he maidan-e-jung main :D

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this topic brings some side topic to my mind

  • kia payaz katney wali churi bhi peeth mian ghompi ja sakti hai ?

  • pait main chura ghompna ziada asaan hai ba nisbat peeth ke

Girey paRey logo ko koi keyon marey ga bhala ? :vivo:

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stabbed? lol, I got shot from behind like in Scarface...

I had my contract, signed in my pockets, even started working, what comes out? 2 days later the Coffeeshop owner tells me, "we don't consider you as a colleague in our Coffeshop"...

I had that job...good pay...and then SUDDENLY and unexpected bang, you're out.

B'tch. She'll pay for that big time. The way I was treated, like sh't. Lanat parre uski dakan pe...