Off course some one who is passing through the tragedy themselves does not understand the theory. Its the duty of us to make them understand. I don’t think there is any difference b/w justifying or “giving reason” unless you denounce it first and then go on to tell the reason. I haven’t seen single post of your condemning the suicide bombers.
btw if we go by your logic, it will totally justify US attacks. As THEIR home was attacked, THEIR mom, daughters, sons and fathers KILLED …so THEY Attacked the Afghanistan. Are you by any mean saying this? This theory will also justify many other thugs and murderers!
and finally, if sucide bombers are so right in taking the “revenge” tell them not to take the “personal” revenge in name of “jihad” or “islam”
tell these “oh so islamic” jihadis that once 4th Khalifa Ali (rz) was in a war and he was about to behead some opponent while fighting and that guy spit on Ali’s face. Ali left him alone saying that “before I was killing him for Islam but now I am also angry with him for personal reason”