***There have a lot of issue about all kind of relationship, But always peoples have to face a major issue after marriage .Look at your experience and share some advise to peoples who would face this problem in future life, There,s only my very simple question to all GS members.
How Can we make balance between our parents and wife ,what things make both of them happy always and Men can take breath easily .?
Might Girls should better know about this Answer. ***
Re: A Simple Question About Life.
First of all, this thread should be placed in Life1. I hope Mods will soon do this :@:
Now coming to your question.
I have seen men putting efforts to make one or other happy and there he loose balance. You dont need to do any such thing. Every MIL and DIL has major or minor issues with eachother. In my opinion a man should let both of them deal their way and dont interfere. On the other hand, separately he should make his wife understand what his mother means to him and how she should not cross her boundaries of misbehaving with her and also to his mother that is my wife and I hope you will accept her as a daughter and will try to solve bigger issues very tactfully being a Buzrug to this family.
He should NEVER insult his mother infront of his wife or his wife infront of his mother. Dont give chance to any of them to make most of you or Using you!! When they will see you are not interfering in their matters, they will eventually end up solving out their issues themselves or compromise. (Its not like if I am saying you shouldnt interfere, you dont bother to see whats going on around, always be vigilant too!).