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ego, !@#$%^&*()( attitude and desire are far more important than a girls heart. she’ll find another bakra to ***kritch ***so all is good n ballay ballay in the end. 
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Your lameness and ignorance is visible in all the other forums why not keep them out of this forum at least since this forum is about feelings, emotions and sentiments.
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On a serious note, i have thinking and rather wondering on the same lines lately... How do you men feel if you are simply trapped into arrange marriages? I believe arrange marriages always have a feeling of apprehension involved.. Atleast this is how i feel about it. And especially if you have already lived a relation being in love with someone.. and you just couldnt make it. How does it feel having someone to be in your life, as a partner, who is not chosen by you but the parents.. It is out dated, but it does happen even today.. Atleast i have witnessed so many such instances.
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yeah…feelings, emotions, sentiments, very right. but not passing judgments like u did in your previous post. grow up if you can. waise mujhay to koi umeed nazar nahi aati tumharay liey…
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On a serious note, i have thinking and rather wondering on the same lines lately... How do you men feel if you are simply trapped into arrange marriages? I believe arrange marriages always have a feeling of apprehension involved.. Atleast this is how i feel about it. And especially if you have already lived a relation being in love with someone.. and you just couldnt make it. How does it feel having someone to be in your life, as a partner, who is not chosen by you but the parents.. It is out dated, but it does happen even today.. Atleast i have witnessed so many such instances.
Important question ... should hve it as a separate thread :)
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I would say the exact same thing if it were a woman who complained about being married because of **emotional blackmail. **The guy knew for a fact that this was his fate even though eh didn't like the idea, but he failed to take a stand and went through the entire wedding.
Just because someone cannot stand up to emotional blackmail beforehand, that does not give them a right to hurt their now-spouse. Once you are married, it is ones obligation to do every thing possible to make ti work. If we'd hear hte other side of the story, how his wife felt being dumped a month later (maybe she initiated it who knows) i'd change my opinion, but going by what is already stated in teh second article, i'm finding it hard to gather any sympathy for him. And I would say the exact same thing if the roles were switched.
i don't know if i agree here, sara... its not black and white... emotional blackmail and guilt, especially from a dying relative (!!! i mean, REALLY these people are effed up) really messes with your head, especially if you are vulnerable to it and have been through horrible things like being chained in a mosque for a month! that goes beyond normal circumstances... this poor boy went through hell because of his family's ignorance and then they punished him for acting out due to something that was their fault to begin with! as for the girl, i do feel sorry for her, but i'd feel sorrier if she was trapped in a loveless marriage with a guy who felt nothing for her.
its a tough situation and i think calls for sympathy. this isn't second thoughts because of "i dont love this person", as we've heard here before, but because the family is clearly crazy and they were forcing him into a dead-end situation. for them to even assume it would work after everything they've said/done just proves how nuts they are.
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Apni baat karo! 30-40 saal kay toh hogay laykin in saalo mein tameez bilkul nahi seekhi!!! na kisi nay sikhai hai tumhari toh umar bhi nahi rahi kay koi umeed karay. I know you are desperate to get noticed by me thats why you keep on quoting my posts out of all the people here…but trust me its ok..i dont like talking to people unless they learn some manners 
so please cool down and mind your own business.
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is this in relation to that documentary that was on yesterday evening?
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Weird you give me reps for my reply and your statement is completely contrary to it. Well mashallah meray maa baap nay mujhay bahaut tameez sikhayi hai but saath mein yeh bhi sikhaya hai kay kisi bhi aaray teray ki batameezi kabhi bhi bardasht karna!
I’d rather get banned from this site for saying what i believe in, what is true and be honest rather then tolerating people who deserve no tolerance from anyone hope that answers your statement
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*Well mashallah meray maa baap nay mujhay bahaut tameez sikhayi hai **but saath mein yeh bhi sikhaya hai kay kisi bhi aaray teray ki batameezi kabhi bhi bardasht karna!
*If you shouldn’t have to hear it from anyone, why should anybody have to hear it from YOU?
- I’d rather get banned from this site for saying what i believe in, what is true and be honest rather then tolerating people who deserve no tolerance from anyone hope that answers your statement
*it’s all gud
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^ i wrote one statement, and as i said i write whatever i want to i dont want to write anything thinking about others in other words i dont want want people trying to act smart in this forum and try hard to lead me!!!
If some people didn't like it they should have ignored it since it had nothing to do with them - but no people just have time to butt in with their most lamest remarks! so if i didnt start it **i wouldn't tolerate it!!!*
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Tussi jaou tathay khu witch and have your desires fullfilled there. There is no way you can justify what has happened to the girl, while he tried to finish off his relation.
Regarding the matter Itself, Its another strategy to project Pak and Pak people at Its worse as ever.
Where are the stories regarding force marriages with kiddos in India?! Movies like “water” are much to be appreciated than 3rd class re-incarnation crap by S.R.K. But they hardly get the a notice by their own media and country men. (Sorry to bring in India, but Its the most valid argument as for a good example I could remember).
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I hope he dies for breaking the poor girls heart just because of his ego, !@#$$%^& attitude and probably desire (like half of he jutt desis) to marry a white woman.
where did this come from???
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Ouch - what happend Teelobhain? I doubt his desire to get out of a situation that he was forced into has anything to do with wanting to marry a white woman.
I personally think that this service is just as necessary for boys as it is for girls. It is just as easy for a boy to be emotionally blackmailed into a bad situation, especially because he has typically been babied or received favoritism from his mother and other relatives since birth. It is never easy to stand up to that. While I feel sorry for the girl, the real blame in this situation falls on both the girl and boy's families.
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Just last week I saw a special on MSNBC about a Sikh girl from Canada who fell in love with a riksha-wallah in India & eloped with him, so her mother & her uncle had her killed…
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meiney heart broken sunay thay lekin gues married forcefully and crying bout it pehlee baar suna hai 
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^ r u kidding me?
How can you people be so insensitive?