Re: A serious discussion - no really a serious one
But here is the delimma I have. The secret is told to me, not to "us". And by the very nature of the fact that it is a secret means it should not be told to anybody else. In other words you are breaking your word when you tell your husband/wife/girlfriend or boyfriend.
Hardly a positive development in the first place. You break your word to keep your spouse happy. That doesn't sit well with me.
Sadzz I am single. Have been for a year or more now. I am not the type of guy to go to Darfur and stay in a relationship. When I made the decision to come here, I decided to be single as well.
Nazz, how wrong you are. There is no hope for me. Stop giving me false hope :p Plus I like the way I am.
Now here is the second part of the question. Your husband/boyfriend/lover/whatever you call him has a secret that another female friend has told him. He is turning into her confidente of sorts. She speaks to him about her issues and he is her shoulder to cry on. How would that work for you?
For the men, switch genders to answer the moral delimma.