is called ‘love’
it could be your biological parent’s absent love for you, or the love that ideally ought to be present, in your relationship to your lover/spouse
no matter what you give: validation, gratitude, kindness, respect, understanding, a compromise of your own true being, honesty & much more…
YET,
people are a lot more clever than you are… is the lesson sometimes, we learn in life again and again..
any company, any advise?
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and yet we keep loving! It is love. It happens. Risk factor is not something you think of when you are in love. Whether it pays or not is not even the issue. It happens for a reason and a wise person will always learn the lesson from it rathar than think of what he gained or lost.
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^ I couldn't have said it better myself. :)
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it could be your biological parent's absent love for you, or the love that ideally ought to be present, in your relationship to your lover/spouse
no matter what you give: validation, gratitude, kindness, respect, understanding, a compromise of your own true being, honesty & much more...
YET,
people are a lot more clever than you are... is the lesson sometimes, we learn in life again and again..
any company, any advise?
the sooner we start learing from life, the sooner we become one of these "more clever" people
then it's up to US to use it against others, or not
we shall remember, relationships are not struggle for power, but mutual understanding, care , and pleasure
you think you lost in a relationship only if you give something against your will, otherwise, anything given with open heart is never regreted afterwards.
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hello sweety, :)
paris i thought u will never come in Ghup Shup.. !..
:) So how are u :) and how do u do baby !
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i agree. thanks for sharing this.
sometimes, not just in intimate relations, but in others too, people back stab.
one may have thought that one was caring, and yet unexpectedly one is accused with insensitive and horrible accusations.
we shall remember, relationships are not struggle for power, but mutual understanding, care , and pleasure
you think you lost in a relationship only if you give something against your will, otherwise, anything given with open heart is never regreted afterwards.
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Well said.
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Speaking from personal experience....I would rather have loved and lost than never have loved at all.
Its a risk that pays off in some way or the other. As long as the love is genuine, you will have gained something from it and will always remain in your heart. All life's experiences are risks...take what you can out of them and accept whatever is the outcome. If you have to let your love go, then accept it and move on or else you will never be free. Yes easier said than done....but if you dont take the risk, you will never know what could have happened. Then again make sure that it is a calculated, well thought of risk.
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another risk that never pays is hate ,
it may be due to any reason , so why not condemn it 
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Its not even about risks. Its Human nature, a need Allahjee
created in us for a reason. Love has many facets, each unique
when encountered. Love is not about gaining or loosing,
nor learning any big lesson.
Love is a state of emotion, that needs right soil and
care taking. When daily life shadows Love, it needs
consistency to grow into deeper love. It takes lot of
work and sincerity. Our fast way of living and amount
of daily stress, often cools down the Love we have
once promised to keep burning........
Some sort of love are unconditionally...the sort we have
for our family and old friends.
Often I tend to think, if you have been genuine and done
your very best, then it sets you free. Whatever then happens
you find peace of mind, knowing you were true all the way......
I'm in Philo-corner today...... ;-)
Hope it makes sense, because Love is too often senseless.