I know your going through difficult time, may Allah give you peace and its really hard to relate to other ppl's story, but after going thru ur recent thread I wanna tell u a real life story, This is a story of my best friend since childhood, we went to same school, same college, same medical school, so I know every detail of her life. She was friend with some paroosi guy for 8 years, they started as friend and ends as lovers, they talked to each other daily, for hours, used to meet each other every other day, kind of grew with each other, both were very sensible ppl. my friend was becoming a doc and that guy was doing accountancy. They never realized they liked each other the other way, they used to say they will help each other find right person b/c they knew each other so well. Finally when girl rishta started coming and her parents were seriously considering , guy realize that he loves her and she loves him 2, but his mother never agrees for the girl , guy put every effort but cant make her mother agree. Guy went to girls parents and asked for rishta himself, the girl say no, I dont want to get bad duas from a mother, finally girl had her nikah but was waiting rukhsati b/c of our finals, the guy try to commit sucide, he survives but he wanted the girl to get khulaa, but the girl says no. Now after 5 years both of them are married not with each other, have kids, atill in touch wid a hi hello, do still miss each other but very happy in thier lives.
I know its lengthy and boring but I really wanted to share this amazing story with all of you and especially Amir.
"... and of the hearafter men are heedless..." -Quran