Re: A quick suggestion needed plz .....
What the hell - she is selfish if she leaves the kid with the father, who, by virtue of being equal participant in the conception, must be equal participant in parenting as well. She is better able to take care of the child? I don't know of any medical proof for that. A man can do the "mothering" as well if he has the will.
On second thought, I have to agree with Fraudz - leave the child with family in Pakistan. My parents did that for a few years and my sibling and I were taken care of by our nani first and then by my khala and their family when my parents were in England. My sister was a toddler. She is the most well-adjusted person you will find. We were there for about three years.