a question regarding sex n islam

what does sharia says about
-oral sex ?
-is it true that a husband has to pay his wife for nursing his children ?
-(I don’t know how to put it but ) does the Nikkah really gets nullified if even a drop of milk is swallowed by the husband ?

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1) oral sex is an unclear thing, most scholars say its not allowed
2) she has the right to ask the father to pay for nursing the children
3) no, it does not, but be careful

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Could you explain this?

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^ if someone swallows his wife's milk, it does not have any effect on the marriage....
but its not considered good, so one shud atleast be careful not to do such a thing on purpose....

once u r married, u wont need explanations.... :p

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So legally, it is classified as makrooh?

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As long as the liquid does not enter your mouth.
Thats what i’ve read and know.
However, its against modesty and shame to do it. Remember Modesty thought by the Rasullallah s.a.w. And in islam.
Allah knows best.

wth! …?

I don’t know.

But Milk is not supposed to be swallowed AT ALL. And this I know.

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Now we have 2 contrasting opinions on point 3. Lay on the competing fatwas, please...

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yeah..2 different views. My friends were having a discussion and this point came up and some were of the view that its totally not allowed n results in nullification of marriage...I don't know
a reference would really help if someone can come up with one :)

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:lahol:…ahem. What type of questions are you asking…???

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I think point 3 is makrooh but it doesn't nullify the marriage!

I am not sure about point 1 (they talked about women giving to men but not other way around???) and liquid that comes out is not considered pure either? but it doesn't mean that all the above (if done) will dissolve a marriage!

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It is not wrong to ask as long as people stay in the code of conduct in these threads…

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it looks like you have some nice things planned, LOL

islam says have fun, enjoy yourself and keep happy, so have sex to the fullest.lol

and wat are you talking about drinking milk, you mean from your wifes breast?

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I think if we just consider these acts in the the overall context of the teachings of our religion, the answers are very evident and do not need an answer............

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what about manusmriti?

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:mudhosh: :mudhosh: :confused:

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if it's not declared haram, its ok

like someone said, all it takes is some cursory research all the answers are there, no need to ask any aalim or maulvi how to conduct your sex life

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But then how will we get interesting topics here??? :bummer:

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^^ :rotfl:

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Even spouses r sposed to be modest with each toher ??? :confused:

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Yes.
Shame and modesty do exist…practise it to the extent you can.

I’m not telling you this..words of the Prophet pbuh.