A question plz..

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i was curoius to know that..:
if a gurl n a guy like/love each other…and go throw fornication..it is like they have to get married…if their parents oppose their marraige..can they use this point as a revalant reason?

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revelant?...you mean relevant?

ok...relevant reason for what?

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Relevant reason to marry against the parent's will I believe, though she could also mean

I never heard of someone HAVING to marry someone else because they already slept with them. They already went against the will of Allah by having sex before marriage, why do they care about parents blessings?

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That may be one of the more interesting discussions, actually... when a guy or a girl tells his/her parents "I know you don't want to marry me to this person, but you know what, we already had sex together, and it was good, so now lets do the nikkah. Shabash - maan jayein ab."

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Socially, yes.
Religiously, no.

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You need to take parents permission to marry? I am all confused.

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you need their blessings, or at least blessings from some guardian - the female needs a wahi, although I dunno if the groom does or not.

But from what I understand, if the marriage is being blocked for ridiculous reasons like he doesn't earn enough money or typical paki stuff like that, you can go ahead and get a nikkah done without the parents involvement.

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I am assuming that was a typo and you meant Wali (guardian) and not wahi (revelation) :smiley:

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i wish women could also get a wahi, that way they wouldnt make mistakes :p

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Wahi or not, some of them do get Ilhaam for sure :D

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It is recomeneded that they should marry--- They have done one mistake - May ALLAH forgive them - they should repent and ask forgiveness from ALLLAH subhanawataalah and marry each other..

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Intersting thread....enjoyed some of the comments.

What is the meaning of Zana? Someone really knows?
A friend of mine said Zana only means something like 'cheating on spouse' and zana without marriage is not!!! Is this true?

Anyway, there is no need for parent's permission for two adults in Islam. This brings another point......who is adult? 18 year old, 21 year old or the one who is at puberty?

Off course in order to live with peace and harmony one needs blessings from family members.

Also the marriage must be announced.

I like Valima...having good food over a broken tissue.....:-)

I think no wali/wahi etc. needed either in Islam.