A question from all of you.

[Paheli00]

Re: A question from all of you.

@newbee13

In start of my marriage I went after asking my husband because he told me his approval is enough. Later his dad made a huge scene ( which is mentioned in previous posts and he even cried) that I don’t give him respect and don’t ask him. So you see my situation is very sucky.

I understand your FIL threw a tantrum and cried. What was your husband’s reaction so this? Did your husband specifically tell you that you cannot leave the home without obtainin FIL’s permission?

@newbee13

Today at dinner I bought chicken salin from home my mom made it for me.. My fil insisted I have teerar which I don’t like so I told him ill eat chicken salin bohot dil hai khane ka esp banwaya hai.
Am I over reacting?

What is teerar? And is there is a reason why you could not take a some chicken salin AND tiny bit of teerar? Why do you have to pick one? Based on what you wrote, your FIL did not forbid you to eat the chicken salin. FIL wanted you to eat what he cooked. Why not take a tiny bit of what he cooked AND the chicken salin?