A question for the married folks on GS

Lifestyle Relationships
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  • Have you noticed a change in your relationship with your parents after getting married?
  • Has this change been for the better?
  • Or Worse?
  • Was this change further compounded upon after you had kids of your own?
  • Would you have preferred if things had remained the same as they were before you got married?

Discuss with anonymity in mind.

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This is a great topic but in presence of @Bobby1, such topics cannot be discussed on GS anymore.

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From what I've observed is that the entire dynamic changes and everyone starts walking on eggshells so as not to offend the other and create problems.

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More closeness with my mom, I would say.

Shared experiences (in this case marriage and in-laws and parenthood) bring about a mutual understanding and empathy and support. You begin to understand the feelings and even struggles your parents went through when you are faced with similar situations.

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I just ignore his antics. He tried to start shit on one of my threads recently, I completely ignored it and didn’t care. That’s the only to go about on this site. I don’t know under what pretense was he unbanned, considering that after his ban, he tried to catfish me using a multi, pretending to be a 24 year old woman. When it comes to his pettiness, the sky’s the limit.

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Perfectly said, and sometimes this is just too obvious.

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More closeness with my mom, I would say.

Shared experiences (in this case marriage and in-laws and parenthood) bring about a mutual understanding and empathy and support. You begin to understand the feelings and even struggles your parents went through when you are faced with similar situations.
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This seems to be the case with most women. But I guess, with guys, its a bit different. Life after marriage becomes a juggling act, even at the best of times. Especially, when it comes to private family matters pertaining to your sibling(s) or extended family, that your parents aren’t entirely comfortable discussing around anybody else, even your spouse.

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People are a million times more interested in the Johnny Depp trial.

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I have a lot of interest in well being of all third world countries. I am talking in terms of US policy making, for them the only interest they have in Pak is in curbing terrorism and disabling Nukes. They are a country out of favor. It is not worth their time to spend useful resources on a country in a full-fledged self-destruct mode.

Most the high-quality western men would have zero interest in Pakistani women. When I go to the gym and see the most amazing fit scantily clad women and not a soul even looks at them so why would they be plotting to enslave females of a country where it has undesirable hygiene and grooming standards?

There are stunningly beautiful women here, literally throwing themselves at men like my boys, and they run away from them. Why do you think these men would plot to enslave women from a dirty place?

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Ironic, but it really didnt take too long to prove you right! :hat:

However its probably the easiest most projection anyone can make here :chai:

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Yes mom went nuts after shaadi.

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