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What he prolly doesn’t even know himself can’t hurt anyone either. 
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lol at success criteria. For me it will be #1.
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Guess it is number 4 for me - the only box not ticked on my checklist ....
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Do you actually feel the need to have companionship & a bonding.... or marriage is mostly a thing you have to do because:
- You are getting old,
- All your friends are getting married & have families of their own
- You are not finding some one suitable and may not later on as well
- Its something that establishes self-accomplishment for you and some thing in life you can tick off your books having accomplished it
- It a success criteria for you.
- That's the only halal way to get laid (Edit: RV)
Well for me, Insha'Allah i will get married when i have enough saved up as well as job is little more stable. Then i think it is Insha'Allah right time for me. However, many of my friends have gotten married and i am 28 at the moment. And of my childhood friend got married just yesterday. And talking about someone suitable, well that is what i am started looking into it by asking my friends and family. I am sure i will get some nice referral Insha'allah. World is full of nice and wonderful women but it just matter of picking the right one. And lastly, i like to add the fact that..since i have been in relationship with a girl for long time and just got broken up...may be i would like to marry with someone who has gone through same rough experience?. O yes! the halal way to get laid of course! ;)
Re: A question for the GUYS....
Do you actually feel the need to have companionship & a bonding.... or marriage is mostly a thing you have to do because:
- You are getting old,
- All your friends are getting married & have families of their own
- You are not finding some one suitable and may not later on as well
- Its something that establishes self-accomplishment for you and some thing in life you can tick off your books having accomplished it
- It a success criteria for you.
- That's the only halal way to get laid (Edit: RV)
Good thread/question...
You know sometimes, you are on top of the world, excellent career, women chasing you around, no responsibilities of kids or anything; yet you still long for a family and settle down with the 'one', though that one has to be special in all regards for that 'longing' to occur :D It's the way life works, you long for a family, eventually...
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- All of the above.
Re: A question for the GUYS....
Do you actually feel the need to have companionship & a bonding.... or marriage is mostly a thing you have to do because:
- You are getting old,
- All your friends are getting married & have families of their own
- You are not finding some one suitable and may not later on as well
- Its something that establishes self-accomplishment for you and some thing in life you can tick off your books having accomplished it
- It a success criteria for you.
- That's the only halal way to get laid (Edit: RV)
Parents think that you should get married now :)
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Re: A question for the GUYS....
Do you actually feel the need to have companionship & a bonding.... or marriage is mostly a thing you have to do because:
- You are getting old,
- All your friends are getting married & have families of their own
- You are not finding some one suitable and may not later on as well
- Its something that establishes self-accomplishment for you and some thing in life you can tick off your books having accomplished it
- It a success criteria for you.
- That's the only halal way to get laid (Edit: RV)
- It feels great to have babies with someone you love and want to spend rest of your life with.
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There is no particular need
if things could work our way, we'd be free men always