A question for married couples

Lifestyle Relationships
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How do you control yourself in Ramzan? :faizy:

Do you do anything during the whole month or do you abstain?

And what do you thing is the appropriate course?

These questions are specifically for those couples who keep rozas.

(Mods: Please let some useful replies come in before you close the thread.)

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Re: A question for married couples

control your self what the heck
is it some think really so uncontrollable threatens your fasting ,,

by the way it is allowed to have intercourse when you are not fasting
like if you really cannot control you can start what ever immediately after eating first date in iftar and stop in Fajar ..

useful reply ehh

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Satisfy yourself and each other after sunset.

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^ Is it an advice or an Islamic rule?

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Sexual intercourse/gratification breaks the fast. If you are fasting, you must wait until your fast is complete (sunset) before you can engage in sex.

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Abstaining from what?

Losing control of yourself and pigging out during iftar time?

Losing your temper?

Lying, gossiping?

^Married couples should abstain from the above listed activities. Your question is not very specific. :halo:

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Re: A question for married couples

In all prayers, make DUA to Allah that he keep you away from sex for whole month....self Jihad.

If you see the feelings in wife's eyes, then perform act, in darkness to satisfy her.

Woh husband he kya jo biwi kay zehan ko na jaan sakay...

All the best in Ramadan Mubarak!

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Use your imagination. I don't want to get banned by providing the details :P

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Use your imagination. I don’t want to get banned by providing the details :stuck_out_tongue:

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I personally think if you are married you should have SEX in Ramadan.

if you pleasing your partner after ROZA thats fine why LABEL it as JIHAD and not do it for whole month

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That's got to be the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard.

Just like food isn't forbidden in Ramadan, neither is sex between spouses.

Sheesh.

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^Sara, look at the first half of his nick. It’s Mastana. That says it all. :cb:

Malik, while it’s encouraged to strive against your lower nafs…sex between married couples is not haram. And Islam does not support veering off to extremes…as that can make deen hard to follow. In darkness or in light…what’s halal is halal…especially after breaking fast in Ramzan. The madness :smack:

Although I’ll admit it…posts like these are awesome…absurdity can truly make your day. :slight_smile:

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You have NO idea what I said.

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It's okay.....I doubt that you do either, somtimes :p

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:) lmao.

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I would like to quote this:

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Rather than use vague terms........there's nothing wrong if the OP had used words like conjugal relations.....or even sex. It's not a bad word, it's a part of life.

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Part of a happy life :(

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There is no abstinence after sunset to next crack of the morning.
You have whole night to enjoy your married life. Just be sure to stop to have your sahri otherwise the next night will result in a forced abstinence because you will be too weak for it.

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God made the night not just for sleeping me mate :)