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Don’t worry, she’s chorring bari bari…she’ll probably marry a rich dude and live happily ever after 
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Wanting to work is one thing, but saying that must work because you need the money is another.
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AmeeeeeeeeeN 
Actually on a serious note, Yes I will work .. Y? b/c Medicine is all about hand on xperience otherwise u end up losing it AND also I have to pay off my loans UNLESS like shikki mawssi said, I end up marrying rich dude 
So, anyone know any rich dude 
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Money does not buy you happiness:)
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^ 100% Correct.
I am married, but good luck 
p.s. hum jaisay bechaarey ghareeb log hi phansengey tumhari “hands on practice” k liye 
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Arshad: when did I say I wana work for money! 
Shikki mawssi: InshaAllah 
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Because you said that you need to pay off your loans…otherwise you would rather be with your family.
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exactly! thats y i said .. I have to ... but don't desire to :-)
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You get loans so that you can get a job and earn even more money(this implies that you are money motivated if the only justification for doing the job is that you need to repay the loans). Then you say that you don’t want to work but you must because you have loan to pay off otherwise you would like to be looking after the kids (which is the justification already mentioned)
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You could have just said that once you take the Hippocratic Oath, you will upheld it and serve the mankind and treat the sufferings of mankind etc. instead of saying that you have to work because life aint easy with money or you have to gain experience in your field. We know that you will buy a porche in future and vacation in the Hamptons 
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yeaww babayy 
kithay ghayeb si? 
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Arshad**: I don’t know y u have a habit of twisting things around. I said simply that I have to .. now im not doing medicine with the intentions that I will make big $$$ in near future. If money only mattered to me then I could have chosen easier way out too instead of working hard to get to where I want to. The only reason I would work after i get married is to pay off my loans and Y i am taking loans b/c my family aint that rich to pay for my med skool xpenses and now u might ask y I even bother doing medicine .. I think I have answered u this many time
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idher hi hoon, im sick, have lots of mental issues too :/
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MujhaY pehlaY hee shuk thaa:hoonh: after all that mentally challenged Cool threads
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I don’t have a habit to twist things around. I just like to get to the real truth and not some PR bs.
I understand that you are saying that you did medicine because you are interested in it. If you were soley motivated by money then you could have taken another job, where you could have earned maybe the same or maybe not the same amount of money.
You had to take out loans and you need to work to repay the loans back.
The only reason that you would work after getting married is to repay the loans otherwise you would like to spend time with your kids. So my question is after you have paid your loans are you going to stop working. I guess you are going to say that why go through studying if you are going to stop later.
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My goal is to work for a few year until I have kids…and when I do have kids, all my attention will be focused on them. I don’t know if I am capable of balancing career and home/children at the same time. I would like to go back when kids are a bit older, but If I feel, it’s not working out for me, then I would have to give up my career. I feel children these days require more attention than ever..and if I want my children to grow up to be good human beings, and make a name for themselves, then i would have make some sacrifices. I wouldn’t mind giving up my career for them one bit (if required, of course).
I don’t think I have as much patience as AngelEyes, so I will just be happy with 1-2 
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I would hope that my husbad would be supportive of me wanting to work after marriage,after all what is the point of obtaining a degree without using iti.e.spending so much money,time,effort etc for what.Also,the cost of living has increased over time and it may be the case that one can not get by on just one person's income and for a 'comfortable' life it may be the case that both individuals should work.
I personally want to work after marriage as i want to give my children the best in life.However,their upbringing is also important so until my child/ren starts nursery(so till about the age of 3)i would be a full time mother,as that is one of the most important roles for a woman.
I don't think i could be a housewife full-time.I would juggle my career and home life.I know a lot of women who regret not working later on in life because they feel lonely.Even if my husband could support me and any children we have,and was the sole breadwinner i would want to work.In my opinion,i think the concept of housewife is outdated and more women,especially in the Western worls prefer to work,albeit full-time or part-time.
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..I hate work ..n I love sleeping ..n eating n watching tv …soo u got the answer ? …
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I would imagine that people would talk about this before they get married so there's some understanding there. I plan to have a job that suits my interest (not necessarily to make money) after I get married, but I don't think I'll keep working once I have kids. =\
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i agree :k:
money isnt everything but it does help especially if you want whats best for your future (ie ur kids).