Re: A Question asked by my friend:)
Could you lose any feelings you have for someone if they just let themselves go in terms of hygiene, weight, etc?
I know everyone has their bad days and goes through phases, but I'm talking about when someone seems to completely lose interest in taking care of themselves and they get lazy. They gain a ton of weight, and they stop taking care of their hygiene, etc.
Wouldn't that put you off of them somewhat?
Even if you were genuinely in love with them, and you loved them for who they are (personality), if you start to find them so unattractive or they gross you out, wouldn't it affect how you feel towards them?
if they just let themselves go in terms of hygiene, weight, etc?. that person is teling me that he/she does not care abut himself/herslf anymore. If that person does not, it is only fair for me to stop caring about that person and reduce my interaction.
If he/she ever ask, I will politely let him/her know