Re: A queer feminist Muslim you should meet
She lives in a Western country where she could have a civil union if wished it. If it’s her intent that matters then she can make do with what she has. Many gay people, before legalized marriage, committed to one person. She clearly states that she doesn’t. I think all sects of Islam are agreed that this is a clear cut “no”. That’s not up for interpretation, but she insinuates that it is.
There are two separate issues here. She can advocate for tolerance, and I agree with her here, without *******izing religion. Islam is not in tune with premarital sex and abortion as contraceptive. If she thinks that’s backwards, fine, that’s her opinion, but don’t try to make religious arguments for why they’re okay. Admit that you’re knowingly breaking rules and trying to justify your behaviour. Part of religion is self control, which she clearly does not believe in.
I can defend her right to live as she wishes and still call her out for BS’ing about her piety.