hey, everyone
something recently happened with my friend, she was in love this guy in pakistan or maybe both were in love with each other. so the guy goes to uk for studies and work. and there’s a gap in contact then one day he says, we can’t talk anymore. they were really in love and then this sudden change. what should my friend do ?
i’m wonderin kya wajah ho sakti hai.
**update: **I forgot to mentioned they had planned that after he get’s settled he was going to talk to his mom/parents for her hand.
maybe its because they were not in love in the first place? because when you love someone (if that sort of notion even exists) then you do not leave that person (?) in my opinion the case your are telling me is that they thought they loved each other but in fact it was nothing really. maybe he found some more practical option, passport holder etc. i dont know im not speculating.
the reasonable thing for your friend to do is to cut him off. and promise herself to not take him back if and when he does comes back later down the road. what i have seen is that the guy leaves girls get all emotional and cry their brains out and some time later he comes back and the girls accept him (in other words the girls let the guys play with their emotions). totally stupid of the girls...
Distance is meant to make your heart go fonder not forget - so there was no love there - it was probably puppy love. He probably found someone here - isn't it obvious?
There's nothing she can do, unless she happen to sprout British/US/EU nationality under her pillow over night
Which can be done with the following recipe: take one chump, mix with mitah and smiles to the future MIL, pretend ur an untouched beauty, stir in with a flutter of eye lashes
Tell her to forget about him and move on. but if she wants to go through the embarrassment route than stalk him and get his contact info ask him "why?" blah blah blah
although he should give an explanation it probably won't happen
The guys gone abroad and wants to marry someone from there and this friend of yours is now part of his history. This is the blunt truth. Your friend should move on with her life rather than to mourn lost love.
. The man got to safeguard his future after all 
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