A PreLude to the Terrible Twos

[jaan_leva]

@Mamaof3

jaan leva, if you live in the U S of A (or prob any western country), that approach will result in Child Protective Services knocking at yer door asking about your questionable parenting abilities.

Aside from that, when a child hits and you hit them back, its teaching them that the strongest hitter wins. This may be fine when “BamBam” is 2 years old but what about when they’re 16 and want-what-they-want???

2 years old certainly can understand NO. AND time outs and re-setting the timer. If the desired end result is a child that doesnt hit others, this is the way to go.

So, now a smack on the ass is a questionable parenting ability? Its THE parenting ability known to man that WORKS.

Scumming to your childs misbehaviour is what? A child must have some fear of his/her parents and elders otherwise they will talk back at you, hit others (as is in this case) and maybe in future hit you as well.

Maybe you gave birth to angels, but rest of us give birth to humans and humans by nature need conditioning be it with love or punishment in form of slap on the ass.