A peculiar behavior

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@Sara516

I have been noticing this behavior and while I won’t generalize and say its a “desi” thing, most of my circle is comprised of desis and naturally thats where I get my observations from.

Why si it, in order to praise one thing (or person), people resort to putting something (or someone) else down deliberately?

A minor example, I like restaurant A while my friend likes restaurant B. There’s nothing wrong with B but my companion may say “restaurant A is horrible b/c of this, this is why B is better.”

I’ve noticed the same behavior with people…its not enough to say a person is good or nice but also they have to say the other person is bad…

is it fair that things must always be compared? can something thats good not stand alone on its good qualities?

Are those desis you are referring to all women?

I am asking because it’s a women’s trait.