Re: A new Long Distance RelationshipâŚ
Re: A new Long Distance RelationshipâŚ
in most of the cases long distance relationship is jst a wastage of time, resources n energies ⌠i hav couple of personal experiences⌠at the end of the day u will b backed to the same stage from where u hav started ur journey of so called long distance relationshp:D
ther r exceptional cases but rare ,very small percentage ..
Re: A new Long Distance RelationshipâŚ
Like any relationship it needs extreme commitment.
Things like distance, etc etc are all big things in general but minor things in the overall picture. Extreme commitment and PATIENCE compensates for everything.
IMHO.
Re: A new Long Distance RelationshipâŚ
This thread is going to helps me sleep tonight. Love it.
Inspi, dude, CHILL OUT! Who cares whether other people have had LDR and if they had worked or not. Know what you want and have a clear picture of what you need and keep yer fingers crossed!
Re: A new Long Distance RelationshipâŚ
âmatureâ posters are always rightâŚhow the hell anyone dare disagree?? 
Re: A new Long Distance RelationshipâŚ
Vonage is new kabooterâŚ
Re: A new Long Distance RelationshipâŚ
Re: A new Long Distance RelationshipâŚ
Indeed.
Re: A new Long Distance RelationshipâŚ
be open and not critical I know loads of ppl who have successfully married other ppl from different arears - the only thing that matters is urs and his compatability, neyaat and a true intention to be with each other - love know no bounds but does recognise another heart beat
Re: A new Long Distance RelationshipâŚ
I dunno if Iâm too late in my replyâŚbut speaking from experience, LDR is do-able. I was in a similar situation as you - I lived in Canada while the now-hubby lived in Europe. So ofcourse seeing each other regularly wasnât easy, esp. since I wasnât able to go see him. We had a long distance relationship for 1.5 yearsâŚand heâd usually come visit every 4 months or so. So yes, itâd be hard not being able to see each other for that long, but that didnât take away from the love we had for each other. If anything, it made us even more excited about finally being with each other. Just always remember to communicate well and to trust. Even if thereâs a few days of minimal communication - thatâs okâŚyou both are busy with your lives. So just be realistic about it and know that due to time differences and such, there will be times when you guys might not be communicating all the time, or he might be busy with work - donât feel down if that happens nor send excessive emails/nag him about it. Iâm saying this moreso because I dunno how you are, but women seem to be more expressive and needy in that sense - wanting to talk on the phone for hours and such while men just donât do that. Having said that, in the beginning though, make sure you guys DO communicate a lot because this is your getting to know period and itâs important to take a lot of time out for each other.
Also, thereâs skype, thereâs whatsapp (or if you can afford, intâl texting), etcâŚwhich makes it all a lot easier. Come up with different ways of communicatingâŚlike weâd take pics of things around us that were cool and send them to each other - itâs nice to share those little things in your daily life.
And in no time, youâll be together. In the beginning, I used to wonder how I was gonna survive the 1.5 years, and now itâs already been 2 months into our marriage. Time flies.
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Iâm in a long distance relationship right now. Itâs only been 8 months but everything is still perfect.
Iâve had one other relationship in the past and that was also LDR. Things started fizzling out after about 3 months, so I was obviously skeptical about this new LDR initially.
The difference is that the new guy is very mature and committed. His communication skills are also amazing.
At first you will have a ton to talk about. But after the first few months youâll have to get creative. Visit each other every 3-4 months. Send each other small parcels every few weeks.
We make sure that we FaceTime or Skype every weekend. Iâm going to bake double chocolate chip cookies tonight and mail them to him tomorrow morning on my way to work 
Itâs tough but itâs doable if you both agree on the goal and timeline.
Good luck!