A Muslim Girl’s guide for dealing with Guys

i think this article is a conspircy to turn all the straight girls into chocolate licking lesbians :mad:

What is the rule, if there is any, for interaction between boys and girls online?

If you are in a public chat room, your normal attire would be OK. but if someohow you two end up in a private session, it is advised for the girl to draw the ghoonghat and the guy is advised to lower his gaze (actually, this helps most of the guys anyway...no wonder all rules were made to cater men).

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What the hell... when did u get the sex change? Please change your nick... fungal or something to go along with your pretty avatar..

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*Originally posted by ChaChoo: *
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What the hell... when did u get the sex change? Please change your nick... fungal or something to go along with your pretty avatar..
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Maybe Funguy was a girl all along.

It would certainly explain alot.

:rotfl:

Lots of people are coming out of closet.

:eek:@ur avaitor and nick:konfused:

If all interaction is strictily banned how do you choose your life partner withought your parents stitiching you up ?

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ok this has got to be one of the funniest posts on gupshup since um the last time irem posted something.

Oh and look who's agreeing with all this crap!? lol

Gimmie a @)*#ing break!

Whoever wrote this has her freaking hijab on too tight or I bet his bukra beard has gone out of wack!! Has it ever occured to you that most of BS that is commonly passed off as 'Islam' is in fact reasons and justification to completely control women and make them 100% subservient and dependent on men.

Now does this sound like something Allah would want to enforce or some typical chauvinistic insecure male???

Looking, talking, befriending or even thinking about a member of the opposite gender does not lead to sex. That is so completely @$(@#($ed up! Again the whole guilt trip and blame is being put on the woman they way this is written. It's all about control!

The only people who are this screwed up and should worry about this sort of thing are those that are so sexually repressed and can't function in any society anywhere anyhow. Such people should just go lock themselves in their closet til judgement day!

God gave you a mind... use it!

As far as women being so irresistible!? ha what a load of crap! You women are so full of yourself and it's what you all want to believe.

Men are freaking idiots and not too picky either! If there are no women around they'll go and screw every and anything else they can find anyhow! And if you don't believe this go to your local farm or prison and check out the action there! lol

Well excuse me :snooty:

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*Originally posted by waqas72: *
ok this has got to be one of the funniest posts on gupshup since um the last time irem posted something.

Oh and look who's agreeing with all this crap!? lol

Gimmie a @)*#ing break!

Whoever wrote this has her freaking hijab on too tight or I bet his bukra beard has gone out of wack!! Has it ever occured to you that most of BS that is commonly passed off as 'Islam' is in fact reasons and justification to completely control women and make them 100% subservient and dependent on men.

Now does this sound like something Allah would want to enforce or some typical chauvinistic insecure male???

Looking, talking, befriending or even thinking about a member of the opposite gender does not lead to sex. That is so completely @$(@#($ed up! Again the whole guilt trip and blame is being put on the woman they way this is written. It's all about control!

The only people who are this screwed up and should worry about this sort of thing is those that are so sexually repressed and can't function in any society anywhere anyhow. Such people should just go lock themselves in their closet til judgement day!

God gave you a mind... use it!

As far as women being so irresistible!? ha what a load of crap! You women are so full of yourself and it's what you all want to believe.

Men are freaking idiots and not too picky either! If there are no women around they'll go and screw every and anything else they can find anyhow!
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i love you..marry me...:D

516- girlfriend, get in line.

Re: Re: A Muslim Girl’s guide for dealing with Guys

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*Originally posted by irem: *

i think shaking hands is OK if there is no other option...like theres some christian person who is unaware abt Muslim rules and extends his hand....

it looks rude and uncourteous to say SORRY WE DONT...and in islam a very basic thing is u dont hurt other ppl's feelings, dont make others feel awkward...

Allah is watching and He knows the intention u accept the handshake with

plus that guy is used to shaking hands with females too. .
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you just made me confused there.

if someone is not aware of something, it's better to teach them than to even not following your own good ways. I take it the best oppertunity to spread the word of your religion.

why should it feel rude and uncourteous if you tell them it's against your religion. I think it's rude and uncorteous of them if they can't respect one's religion.

Wrong is Wrong. If you are in a party where consuming alcohol is a norm and if it is offered to you, wiil you accept it just because:

theres some christian person who is unaware abt Muslim rules

or

it looks rude and uncourteous to say SORRY WE DONT...and in islam a very basic thing is u dont hurt other ppl's feelings, dont make others feel awkward...

after All, Allah is watching and even if we kill someone He knows the intentions. We can be all nude as the only thing counts is what's in heart. I think I am making sense now. Am I?

And the last sentence is very confusing actually very excusing. I mean if the guy is used to shaking hands, does that make it OK and religion is wrong?

All of that just for girls? How about if you also post something for guys here. So that they're also aware of what they are not suppose to do.

The Game Responds:

        *So am I going to hell or what? Really. People, That Is All.*

Hey Not guilty,

SHOOOO - grrrrrr - outta here now - whats with the philosophy and rules - apply em to yerself (its simple - boy meets girl or girl meets boy, both fall for it - end up in bells)

Lets get some real gups in here, they'll show ya

I think it’s imperative to remind that what right is always right. Coming up with counter argument of something right in order to prove the actual discussion wrong is not helping.

Remember the famous story from the Sunnah of the prophet :saw: when a blind sahabi :razi: came and an ummul momineen :razi2: did not cover her face because sahabi was blind, the golden words of the apostle were He was blind but you are not.

says volumes!

So If the Muslims girls/boys are not allowed to talk, listen, see, etc etc

how they are suppose to exercise their religious right to marry with their own free will. ???????

and yess for 90% of muslims, religion was only meant for the women. (bloody crap)