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Dushwari... if this has anything at all to do with your personal life... I suggest you just get over the guy, instead of making excuses FOR him... I mean, no guy should be with a girl and then leave without an explanation... I don't think a girl should wait for such a guy, cuz he most definitely won't come around... I've seen it happen before... and this kinda guy can only be defined as a pussy... plain and simple...

Why would you sit around waiting for him like some kind of loyal dog, when he very well could have moved on and have already bound himself to another girl? That just makes a guy take advantage even more... knowing no matter what he has done/will do, the girl is gonna act like a lil puppy, crawling back to him at the snap of his fingers

Don't waste your time thinking about this, coming up with possible scenarios of what happened, why it happened, etc. etc..

Your self-respect is in your own hands, don't become anyones b***h... harsh... yes... but cold, hard reality... get used to it

Just let it be, and move on.

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Are you sure ?

A father, brother, son and husband are men.

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we are not pigs!!!!!

PS: oink oink

A Young Man 5 ft 2 inch tall 24 yr old looking for ......
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freedom of speech :D

yes... :D

I will add friends to it and rest are...... :D

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What does rest might mean ?.....hmm....

p.s. Are the following included in rest :

Cousins, grand father, grand son, uncles, ........

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^^ it depends on the man which list he wants to be a part of... :)

enuff said....

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something tells me, he is ruthless to himself.
& i want to help him not hurt himself.
but, he is so weak, i did not know.
if he came back, he knows, he will only see a welcome.
if, that is.

why i would give him space, is because i am honest.
i am not wicked and i am strong.
stronger than he can ever know.

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Hes not hurting himself u r hurting urself thinking abt him.You want to b his life partner not mom or baby sitter so if he has weakness or anything let it b.
somehow u reminded me of this shair
wo jo mil gaya usay yaad rekh,jo nahin mila usaay bhole ja
k jo mil gaya wohi aab hai,jo nahin mila sarrab tha

Milk
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muahahahahaha - I am converting people!

Anyway, dushwari babe - lighten up. This guy is obviously not right for you, and those who are suggesting to stop questioning whether he is wrong or whether you are wrong are totally right.

Honestly, its not so much of a gender issue as it is a human issue. You fight with your same-sex friends, and so how is that any different?

Just because two people aren't on the same wavelength doesn't mean its because he's a guy and you're a girl, and you think differently by virtue of that difference. You two think differently because you're two incompatible people.

This guy doesn't even seem like a good friend to you. Loyal romance tho duur ki baath hai.

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hey ... guys have to become pigs to hook up with sows :D

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Ok im gonna speak as someone who has broke things off with girls that have liked me...
I may have hurt these girls but the simple fact is i didnt reciprocate those feelings so it had to be broken off...isnt that a simple enough concept to understand?...however invariably the one who does the 'right' thing in breaking off a situation is seen as the bad guy cos he breaks it off...not fair really...me not having feeling for a girl isnt a crime and neither is it a crime to not return feelings so please stop with the male bashing...

Iv been on the recieving end aswell...iv wanted something to work and it wasnt reciprocated so naturally it is better to seek someone who will reciprocate that love instead of whining about why she didnt care for me...

The sea is big and both good things and bad things will happen...you just have to have faith that good things will happen...

At the end of the day not everyone will like you and neither will you like them so i dont understand all the moaning...

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it is not moaning

or groaning.

it is about the ability of nurture and inner purity of conscience that dual faced members of a particular gender (masculine) experiments pretending lacking - many males, specifically.

relationships are not binary numbers there is no on OR off

it has to be both ON or both OFF

GET IT!

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Babe, its not a gender experiment.

Its you. Its him. Its the two of you not clicking. Period. Move on and find life, enlightenment, and love somewhere else.

You might want to start with a capaccino and a sidewalk cafe. I assure you, you wont break any laws of God in doing so.

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Thanks for the concern, PCG.

You do not know my intention as to why I am doing this. Maybe there is a method to my madness, which you are unaware of.

I also must say that we need to STOP putting DAMPERS on our selves as 'VICTIMS'.

Emotions or no emotions,

The issue is ethics of connecting and disconnecting In relationships.

Forget him, forgive him is CRAP.

You know it just as well as I do.

Emotionally DISTURBED - if I am, so is he, I know so.

If sincerity is lost in the rough of deception, then GOD damn all men and women who speak of horrors of rejections, dejections and non closures.

I hate this trend of hush hush and don't bother.
Somethings in life, cannot be just put aside.

Also, remember how you felt and what you perhaps are feeling to this day, when you recall anything having to do with whoever broke your trust and acted so weak.

Fair enough, we cannot FORCE OR MAKE people to like nor love us.

sometimes, we have to SHAME the embarrasser - not the person, but her/ his behavior. so that they do not do this to others.
And get a solid grip on their WHOLE self - not pieces of it.

who knows, all I want is that he realizes what he has done.

I know, this that over time, losing won't feel so bad, as other losers will come along...

one things is for sure though:
real and true love must know that even after everything if it came back, it will only find a welcome.

p.s. if my threads are bugging anyone, please do not PRESUME, that I am causing havoc to you, to him or to myself.

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Are you hanging out with PCG again :D

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Oh my God. I must look like a piece of cake now.

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no, you are not a cake-piece. and do not call yourself that, please.

you're a strong young woman.

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I think your trying to hold on to something thats not there.
Let it go and move on for ONCE!

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right.

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Dushwari,

ok contrary to what everyone else has said
i would say go ahead and
be mad at him
feel however you feel. . .

it's healthy and normal. . .

but have faith and hope
and InshaAllah, you'll come out of this okay. . .

and just a note, for someone to realize that theyre not into the other person and break it off is fine. . .
for someone to lead the other person on, make promises of forever and then go oh oops, i'm sorry i just dont feel that way is just not fair. .
and the same goes for someone who breaks it off without explaining why. . . its not really a mature way to end a relationship.

~*~ GS (Cafe) Kay Guppies / Guppans ~*~