A wonderful message for single men and women. And for married men and women to pass onto their single friends, enjoy it…
In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question " What kind of man are you looking for?" She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking “Do you really want to know?” Reluctantly, he said “Yes.”
She began to expound…" As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can’t do for myself.
I pay my own bills. I take care of my household with out the help of any man…or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask “What can you bring to the table?” The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought and stated “I am not referring to money. I need something more. I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life.” He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to explain.
She said "I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don’t need a simple minded man. I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don’t need to be unequally yoked…believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I don’t need a financial burden.
I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman but strong enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn’t taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive…he just has to be worthy.
God made woman to be a help mate for man. I can’t help a man if he can’t help himself." When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said “You are asking for a lot.” She replied “I’m worth a lot.”
“God made woman to be a help mate for man. I can’t help a man if he can’t help himself.” When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said “You are asking for a lot.” She replied "I’m worth a lot. :k:
“**God made woman to be a help mate for man. I can’t help a man if he can’t help himself.” **
"I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman but strong enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn’t taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive…he just has to be worthy. "
LMAO! No wonder people say women are difficult. They want perfection. I believe Allah should have given women good old common sense as well as good looks.
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*Originally posted by showkot: *
A wonderful message for single men and women. And for married men and women to pass onto their single friends, enjoy it...
In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question " What kind of man are you looking for?" She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking "Do you really want to know?" Reluctantly, he said "Yes."
She began to expound..." As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself.
I pay my own bills. I take care of my household with out the help of any man...or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask "What can you bring to the table?" The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought and stated "I am not referring to money. I need something more. I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life." He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to explain.
She said "I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple minded man. I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I don't need a financial burden.
I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman but strong enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy.
God made woman to be a help mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself." When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said "You are asking for a lot." She replied "I'm worth a lot."
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Just then a couple of guys in nurses' uniform came running and started dragging the woman away...
While taking her away one of the guards said, "I am sorry sir, but she just escaped from the local insane asylum...Thanks for keeping her busy while we looked for her...:"
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*Originally posted by Lajawab: *
Just then a couple of guys in nurses' uniform came running and started dragging the woman away...
While taking her away one of the guards said, "I am sorry sir, but she just escaped from the local insane asylum...Thanks for keeping her busy while we looked for her...:"
:D
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LOL
Every gal thinks she is worth a lot. Hmmmmmm. True that but does a girl realize that she is the cause of all troubles too.
I may sound a lil chauvinistic, but both men & women r equal. That was da primary reason y women fought 4 their rights back in da old dayz. Neither da man nor da woman is worth more than what da Almighty has given them. U cannot be a princess.
She said "I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple minded man. I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I don't need a financial burden.
I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman but strong enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy.
He said "You are asking for a lot." She replied "I'm worth a lot."
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In its classicl sense, its wonderful to read that woman's thought but I have a question. How many of the girls are worth this lot?
its not about being worth more than a man or not... the main point of the story (in my opinion) is that women of today are more secure financially and emotionally (a lot of us) than the woman from 2-3 decades ago...
what woman were looking for in a man back then is slightly different.. (im talking about desi women here).. back in the times when our parents got married... women married men or were arranged to men who were financially stable, who could provide for the family.. these days a woman can do that for herself...
neways.. back then and now.. one thing is for sure.. if ur not emotionally or mentally compatiable.. the marriage will seem more like a compromise than a happy relationship
neways.. back then and now.. one thing is for sure.. if ur not emotionally or mentally compatiable.. the marriage will seem more like a compromise than a happy relationship
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This has been the case since time immemorial.
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exactly... so nothing has really changed..except back in those days, people didnt care as much.. but now more emphasis is put on empotional and mental compatiability
but that part abt her being worth alot (girls u dont need to kill me)
doesnt it remind u of that Loreal ad?*puts on deep throaty voice “Bcos im worth it ;)…”
ROFL
