…my fiance wrote on love, real love. He actually tried to make me believe he found it somewhere on the net…but i found out he tried to trick me and he actually wrote it for me lol…i find it was so brilliant and true masha’Allah that i wanted to share…Enjoy:)
Relationships typically have ups and downs..it’s easy to be happy and feel the emotions of love and happiness during the ups…but to get through the lows, you’re gonna need more than fluffy visions of white picket fences,and sunny afternoons…you’ll need a special ingredient called real love…notice just the word “love” wasn’t used, rather, real love was used.
Real love comes out of genuine unconditional love for the other partner, and it comes from loving the person for who he is, and nothing superficial such as the person’s looks, social status and /or financial situation. Real love, is like that the oil that keeps the engine going…when the engine is fine, it means it’s well-lubricated with oil,and when the engine rusts up a bit, the remedy for that is that same ol’ oil.
When two people are experiencing a low in a relationship, real love screams out to them, “how do we make this better?!!”..and one feels:..“I can’t take this, I have to fix this up now, it’s bothering me too much”…one loves the other so much, that any sort of conflict can’t be tolerated and must be fixed in order for that person to go back to feeling content, and at ease.
When one doesn not love his /her partner with real love, he /she will think..“wow, I hope my situation with him/her gets better. I wonder what I’ll eat for dinner tonight.” I think it’s quite clear which of the two will end up with happier results.
That’s today’s piece on love and relationships, make sure to read our column next week as we tackle how to obtain real love, and how to be a real lover.
