A Lesson to be learned

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My little Angel is turning into devil, as the time passes he is growing and developing all the sense he need to keep us busy, may it be crawling under the sofa or bed or table or searching or those forbidden objects such as socks, shoes, papers, and you just name it…

All this running after him, making him feel secured and happy reminds me of my parents, they might have done ten times more than what i am doing for my little one, they have comforted me as i am comforting my little one, they have taken care of me when i was teething as i am taking care of him when my little one is getting his white pearls…

The parents are the great Gift of Lord, whenever i am scared i look forward to go to my mama and no body satisfy the feeling as mama does… still when my mama is old and when i call her in middle of the night, she never always welcomes me, if i go to her, she knows what i want from the looks on my face or if it is not on the face then from some telepathic way..

Yes my parents loves me more than i love my 10 months old.. i am 34 ( alright 35 :slight_smile: ) they should be more close to me than i am to my little ones… how bad they might feel when i give them a cold-shoulder-treatment, still they pray for me, how badly i might have hurt them when i tell them that they know nothing about today and i know everything… yet they have brought me to this world and they knew exactly what i wanted when even i didn’t knew what i want and how to say it…

Parents are great.. no body comes closer to their rank… no body love more than parents and no body can be more well-wisher then the parents…

I hope we do care for them when they are around and not treat them as a burden, it is so much better from regret we might have when they’ll not be there to answer our calls..

Missing you Dad ( May Allah have mercy on his soul)..

PS: i think this thread is of Life section but that section is there for bashing every relation human has ever produced, so i thought i would be good to have it in parenting section, where the would-be and new parents would appreciate the things their parents has done for them

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Re: A Lesson to be learned

Hannibal, you're so right. There isnt a person alive who can truly feel and understand parenthood until they themselves become a parent. There is nothing you wont do for your children and the depth of this is so deep that you really cant explain it.

As most people do, I took the love of my parents somewhat for granted until I had my own children. Time and time again, I've found myself discovering yet another instance of their love and caring rather than what I at the time thought was mean-ness on their part.

Becoming a parent is a real eye-opener for sure.

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Re: A Lesson to be learned

Awww your post made me all teary…:naak:

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wonderful post.thanks.