A girl with a past?

[Deeba1234]

Re: A girl with a past?

@ZainabAli94

Would you as parents of a boy allow him to marry a girl that he’s been sexually active with? The boy and girl love each other very much. The girl is very intelligent, Ivy-league educated, good-looking, well-off, from a good family, and appears to be a good person apart from the fact that she was involved with the boy. They want to get married now after knowing each other for four years.

What are the chances of such a marriage being allowed? As the boy or the girl, is there anything that can be done to make the parents agree? Thoughts?

If they’ve been intimate with each other it would make sense for them to marry but I can’t see the average boy’s parents being ok with it.. She’ll often be viewed as ‘easy’ whilst he’ll be seen as ‘misled’ and less at fault (if at all)..

Do the parents know there’s been a sexual relationship? IF he’s 100% firm that he wants to marry her then I’d be more optimistic.. When I say that I mean if he makes it clear to his parents that other options are off the table, that he wants this girl and won’t budge no matter how much emotional blackmail or drama might be thrown his way..