keeping in mind you dunt do excessive spending and keeping to limits with everything be it money, or be it husband wife roles.. if everyone plays their part right as its supposed to, eg the husband gives rights to his wife the way she deserves and vice versa .. inshaAllah Allah sab khair karey ga ..Fikar not :)
Well aaj khal k zamaana aisa aa giya hai k the bharosah on Allah Almighty is there but not as much .. maslan k poraaney zamaaney mein aisa hota tha like my father told me ..k my grandfather was imaam of masjid .. he used to get paid .. monthlyy .. but sometimess to get along .. my grandfather used to build houses from rock ...even cut trees for the roof etc .and do a side job ...
lekin aaj khal ka aisa zamaana aa giya hai k .. ppl sochtey hein k ghar behty Khudaa ta'la chattt phaar k paisey bhej de and always waiting for a miricle lol ..
agar khudaa par itna bharosh kia jaaey k chaaeye kitney bhi bachey ho jaaein .. family kitni bhi bari ho .. so long as his servants worship him and praise him for all the bounties hes provided themm .. its exactlyy like the saying NO GOOD DEED GOES UNNOTICED.. you will always be rewarded ..
Theres sooo many questionss i sometimes ask myself k why women mainly ask such questions on such as above no offece PS and i only come to one conclusion ..this is just my opinion no quoting i think its Just the lack of knowledge of Islam in both women and men...cos in islam it teaches everything from raising a kid to earning your living from burying the dead to rule a kingdom.from . etiquettes of eating ..to using the bathroom .. islam has left NO grey area ..in which you may get stuck in .. its just either simply BLACK OR WHITE ... and its just Us humans who have made it difficult for ourselves ....