Re: A General Question for ya'all
I'd say talk to your partner as much as you can about this issue maybe he/she can come up with a better solution...ie. lowering expense.. try to be more accommodating.. etc etc but don't ever let it ruin your marriage life because it's useless. If you have faith in God and you have been through this and got out of it before .. so you can get out of this again...
A Person who ends their relationship due to this reason has something else on their mind and they are just looking for an excuse to get outa it and bingo "recession zinda bad" and such people are scums and they should just vanish from the face of the earth.