I have a Pakistani family friend who has recently run away from home to live among some degenerate friends…she is 24. She is her parents’ only daughter and her parents are worried sick about her. On top of that, she is very sexually active with different men and has even had an abortion 2 years ago. She drinks alcohol regularly and smokes weed occassionally. It is so sad to see her in this condition! How can she be brought back to the “right path” of being a decent human being???
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well its her life, she made a decision which she thinks was good for her.
after all why are the parents so worried about her now, I mean they have brought up her in that soceity, now she one hell part of it, she can make a decision for her self.
well dont be offended but the responbility goes to parents , they need to wrok out there children well before they fell into that kind of situation.
you are known by the company u keep.... let her be and associate with a better quality of people.
Re: a “friendly” dilemma…
The girl has crossed all lines, all barriers…I can’t say there is no hope for her. But what I will say is that just stick by her side no matter what and keep on telling her the difference between the right and wrong. Maybe, hopefully, she’ll come to her senses when her conscience awakens again sometime. She is an attention seeker and wants it by any means neccessary to fit in the crowd.
In this situation theres not much someone can do apart from praying and making Astugfar. U cant blame the parents, every parent wants the best for their kid, and only parents understand this love. The girls just got mixed up in the wrong crowd which could happen to anyone and inshAllah Allah will guide her on to the right track.
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Oh she seems to be having so much fun! Almost enviable :--/
Moona - what's with the roll eyes if u r seriously concerned? Also, alcohol and weed claims r fine, but have u seen her sleep around with your own eyes? If not, that's slander, and if u remember, Islam doesn't allow idle gossip or slander.
If she's 24, she's been an adult a long time now so peeps should start treating her like one. Whatever she does is by her own choice. Mebbe she's happy the way she is.
What I don't understand is the parents being "worried sick" about her. Uhhh... it's a wee bit too late for that now, ain't it? If she takes drugs, she has money to do all that. Who gave her all that cash and suffocating spoiling excess love in the first place?
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Moona - what's with the roll eyes if u r seriously concerned? Also, alcohol and weed claims r fine, but have u seen her sleep around with your own eyes? If not, that's slander, and if u remember, Islam doesn't allow idle gossip or slander.
If she's 24, she's been an adult a long time now so peeps should start treating her like one. Whatever she does is by her own choice. Mebbe she's happy the way she is.
What I don't understand is the parents being "worried sick" about her. Uhhh... it's a wee bit too late for that now, ain't it? If she takes drugs, she has money to do all that. Who gave her all that cash and suffocating spoiling excess love in the first place?
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Exceptionally harsh Ana :)
On the other hand some of your stuff is logical and does make sense.
i agree with ana here.. she is an adult.. knows what she is doing.. just be there for her.. n keep advising her + pray :) thats all u can do
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Exceptionally harsh Ana :)
On the other hand some of your stuff is logical and does make sense.
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its not the matter of being harsh Rehan, its matter of excepting the ugly truth. and we all know truth does hurt.
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its not the matter of being harsh Rehan, its matter of excepting the ugly truth. and we all know truth does hurt.
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yes, very understandable.
When u have kids u know all u want is the best for them, and if they mess up then it hurts which u only learn when u have yur own kids. Something Ana doesnt seem to understand, anyway a sad situation to hear about regarding a muslim sister.