A friend..

[webmister]

Re: A friend..

@jhunjhunpari

of mine always says she got the best hubby in the world,he is very caring,very loving,the most angelic creature on earth and same goes for her in-laws(she lives in a joint family..They don’t allow her work in the kitchen at all or do some other work..all she does is to go out with her hubby,have fun and she comes home just to sleep or to watch tv bla bla..is that possible?she does not go to her parents home as she starts missing her hubby and her in laws start missing her..her hubby is always giving her surprise gifts and that too diamonds and all..where on earth are such in-laws or husbands??

I have seen many wed women in and around my family who live like that, nothing surprising with your friend’s situation.

[KKF]

Re: A friend..

no she doesnt..she just completed her house job and she is from a lower middle family while her in-laws are far more richer than her...

then i can BET it's NOT true as she claims...period!

[jhunjhunpari]

Re: A friend..

@Khalil KhaaN FaaKhta

then i can BET it's NOT true as she claims...period!

how?

[KKF]

Re: A friend..

@jhunjhunpari

how?

simply because it can't be true...u can't be pampered all the time if u r NOT doing your share...honeymoon lasts a week at max. i've seen or heard any example like that ever. it's just NOT so in desi culture...the way it has been explained by the OP :)

[mirage]

Re: A friend..

kkf inbetween the extremes lie some moderate and actually reasonable people too. Problems occur when one party (between the SIL and INLAWS) is nice and exploited or if both the parties believe in exploitation and manipulation. In the same way there must exist people who are equally nice to each other and therefore their life is peaceful. And it doesnt take much to create such an atmosphere. A little patience and flexibility (ON BOTH THE SIDES) is all that is needed.

So OP, I dont see any reason you not believing your friend. Even if she doesnt sound convincing, respect her privacy and be as positive as she sounds to you :k:

[Catwalk]

Re: A friend..

@jhunjhunpari

of mine always says she got the best hubby in the world,he is very caring,very loving,the most angelic creature on earth and same goes for her in-laws(she lives in a joint family..They don’t allow her work in the kitchen at all or do some other work..all she does is to go out with her hubby,have fun and she comes home just to sleep or to watch tv bla bla..is that possible?she does not go to her parents home as she starts missing her hubby and her in laws start missing her..her hubby is always giving her surprise gifts and that too diamonds and all..where on earth are such in-laws or husbands??

same here mashallah!