After reading that i essentially have NO sympathy for this guy. I believe you turned over a new leaf? how have you not left these weird friends of yours behind? Either way, this guy deserves what’s coming to him. you keep trying to help him out and he’ll never learn. he has to hit the curb, learn his lesson and come back up while absolving his sins. he wont learn any other way.
If you’re a good friend, you’d let him find his correct path and learn from his mistakes. HE has to fix it with his wife, HE has to find a place to stay. The girl deserves a man who really cares for her at the very least.
damn it, i forgot my sympathy bucket at home. I’ll try again tomorrow.