A Few Questions for Those who are Married

arain_munda · July 31, 2012, 5:12am

Re: A Few Questions for Those who are Married

Hello everyone,

I have a few questions for those ladies on this forum who are actually married. At the age of 23, I realize that I am getting closer to where you all are right now. My parents are sincerely looking for the right match, and I’m doing the same. If all goes as planned, Insha’Allah, I will be married within a year. Since I am most likely going to go through a rishta/arranged marriage process, and don’t know what to expect I have the following questions for you. I hope you can kindly answer.

(1) What was being newly married just like?

(2) How was the transition of falling in love with your spouse?

(3) Were there any fears that you had? How were they resolved?

(4) What do you think is the key to a happy marriage?

(5) Are there are recommendations you would have for a girl like me (when it comes to a spouse search)? If so what would they be?

Please add in anything else you’d like! I have a fear of marriage in many ways. I don’t know what to expect, and neither do I feel it will be easy to get used to the life. So I am in dire need of all sorts of mental preparation.

Thanks in advance.

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