Re: A dilemma...
Ok to clarify things i might aswell cos i guess it will become obvious anyway...it is my dad...so Sara no offence taken by your question...
Anyhow PakiPride...it isnt neccesarily indecent of me or stone hearted of me to not check on him when hes sick...its not even that i hate the guy i just dont understand his relevance...as in the only reason i would even consider going is cos its the 'correct' thing to do...i dont have any feelings for him which doesnt in my opinion make me coldhearted...
Maham and Sara...
He might be trying to put things right but its just not important to me to sort things out as such...when i last spoke to him i made a point of the fact that i felt no emotional attachment to him and that he was just an old man to me...im just wondering whether its harsh to not see how he is...i dont mean this in a bad way but he doesnt deserve my concern really...i dont want to feel bad if something does happen cos i dont hate the guy but at the same time i dont want to stay in touch and have to worry about some dying relative when i dont need to...