Re: A dilemma...
Maham and Sara... He might be trying to put things right but its just not important to me to sort things out as such...when i last spoke to him i made a point of the fact that i felt no emotional attachment to him and that he was just an old man to me...im just wondering whether its harsh to not see how he is...i dont mean this in a bad way but he doesnt deserve my concern really...i dont want to feel bad if something does happen cos i dont hate the guy but at the same time i dont want to stay in touch and have to worry about some dying relative when i dont need to...
I think i can understand yr state of mind...ofcourse after all that he did 2 u you are not bound 2 feel anything for him as a son wud for a father...but again i wud say call him up and iquire abt him...it wudnt hurt u, wud it now? so y not...cuz what i m afraid is that if sumthin happens 2 him...u mite at one point feel that u shud have called...u know like Mamaof3 said...father is a father....blood relationships r like that...no matter how bad one does 2 u...i think at one point u mite feel somethin for them esp if they die....i dun know if what im saying is rite or wrong but thats what my heart is telling me u shud do.....rest is upon u and no matter what u do...u wl be rite cuz its yr decision and u have every rite 2 make it.