Re: A Dilemma, and my responsibility
I wish i'd had my big brother around wheN i was 16, I wish he' could have talked TO me, instead of yelling at me for being ugly or stupid or slow and dumb or just ignore me.. At 16, I needed a big brother, someone who knew what I was going through because I know he went through the same stuff I did. Maybe I wouldn't've been suicidal, I wouldn't've made all the mistakes I made, trying to be friends wiht guys but ending up making horrible horrible mistakes that I regret now.
What she needs most is a big brother, a friend. What PCG said was right, you can't force her to follwo religion ESPECIALLY if you are doing nothing to follow it yourself, you have to talk to her, about whats' going on in her life, be a part of her life, instead of being some stranger you just share the same parents with like me and my brother.