A deviation from the "I am sad and hurt" thread...

[hitman007]

Re: A deviation from the “I am sad and hurt” thread…

@DaffyDuck

A deviation from the ‘I am sad and hurt’ thread. Apparently, majority of the wives in the world go crazy when their husbands don’t give them enough time. If you raise the concern, it is considered as nagging or complaining.

Which is a better way to approach a situation like this? I mean not being annoying or being a pain for the husband with a “gimme time, gimme time” stance but a decent way to tackle the situation. Understanding men’s psyche, work holds an utmost importance for them. They consider it their value, their self esteem, way of fulfilling responsibility. If something is wrong with work, they are in a mess emotionally mostly.

So what should be done:

• If there is a mess up at work, do not utter a word and do not bring up your Pandora of issues?
• If he wants to work, understand and let him work?
• raise your concerns in a gentle manner ?
• keep it to yourself no matter what?
• etc?

Thank God! at-least there are some sensible women/girls out here in this silly world. As i am a young boy (chokra hehehe) and professional too so yeah a big thumbs up for the points you mentioned, 100% agreed

Yeah we hate so much when you (newly married girls or fiancee) keep insisting to share something or become chipko. Just give us some time and we would get back to you:flower2:
It would not make a difference but worsen the situation to say why don’t you give us time or you are trying to neglect us etc etc. Believe me, in most of the cases, nothing is like that.

There are a lot of things to say, in-short: bibi na dimagh khaya karo itna