Re: A Desperate Question From any Indian Muslim here on GS?
My understanding is that most Muslims who inter-marry without any conversion involved don’t consider (or even want to consider) themselves as committing adultery.
Unless they are living together without any legal contract, they are wedded legally according to the law of the land they live in with the understanding that such a marriage is undesireable in Islam and leave it at that.
Re: A Desperate Question From any Indian Muslim here on GS?
Yes its a difficult task, but after you have jumped into the sea, you don’t need to complain about water. I hope you got my point that its all about your choice.
Re: A Desperate Question From any Indian Muslim here on GS?
There is something called self selection..even in teams and organizations it is actually a good thing where the weak players or those who dont fit, decide to leave, it is of benefit to them because they dont have to struggle to fit in a group they dont feel at ease with, and it is good for the organization because it is freed from people who are not adding any value and are a drain or resources, efforts, finances or image.
same for religion, if people want to self select out…let them. why worry?
Re: A Desperate Question From any Indian Muslim here on GS?
what an ignorance yaar. ok if we let them freedom they will be answerable themselves to Allah, but who had given them freedom to bark bluffs and vulgar bluffs against Allah Almighty and what it shows then that he or she is doing this because of uncomfortable environment? such thing is intolerable to bear a vulgar bluff against Allah Almighty and Hazrat Muhammad (SAW)
Re: A Desperate Question From any Indian Muslim here on GS?
Okay then..
Like it or not people have freedom.. its their right and it is the law of most lands, and even where there are restrictions how exactly can you change anything with someone who is trolling, not really . Also you can’t have a dialogue with a troll, a shouting match perhaps, but it does no good.
secondly, if you want to waste your time on some no-name random obvious troll on the internet, go right ahead but ask yourself this, could that time be better spent in your own neck of the woods where you can make a direct impact?
there are all kinds of ills in your own area, where you can go spend some time and make a real difference in the life of someone who needs it. I firmly believe that a more vulgar act is staying silent when Allah almighty’s creation may be getting abused, living in heart wrenching conditions and suffering right in your own area, and is not being helped.
Even this random person (if real and not a troll) would have been better helped in his or her own community than by some stranger online, but then ppl in that community may be fixated on some stuff in Burkina faso or lesotho instead of needs and challenges of people in their own backyard.
and that is the problem, desis especially, get all fired up on some random story or incident, thousands of miles away, yet are all oblivious to what they can do in their own lives, and also to make a difference in their own family, community or city.
But Religion is a thing to be respected and not exploited for someone’s motives through a propaganda.