Re: A Desperate Question From any Indian Muslim here on GS? 
well when a muslim hates a non believer, then he/she does not hate the personality of the non believers, but they hate non muslims becoz they are non believers and refuse the commandments of Allah(SAW), A muslim only hates a non muslim becoz he is ordered to hate non muslim’s non believing and refusal of Allah’s commandments, but not the non believers themselves. 