Re: A confused bride to be..
So your friend is ok with him having a “legitimate” wife back in Pakistan…and she herself will be the “secret” wife!!! It’s one thing that your friend is considering destroying her own life…has she once thought about the other girl!!! She’s actually willing to consider destroying another girl’s life by marrying this guy and then hoping that he leaves his “cousin/wife” and kids he may have with her? …OR…is your friend ok with being in a polygamous marriage?
Tell your friend to stop living in a fantasy world and also work on getting some self-esteem and self-respect! Personally I’ve heard of too many situations similar to this. What will your friend do when this guy gets his citizenship, leaves her, and returns to his other wife?!
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Your friend needs to stop all communication with this guy. He has a fiance! Does she realize she’s the “other woman” in that relationship? Does she realize that she herself is cheating on her own fiance by having inappropriate contact with this man?
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If she’s not sure about the U.S. rishta…then she should back out of it.