Re: A confused and split personality
k4bir:
right here we go i’m an pakistani bloke 33,brought up in england consider myself british,the trouble… i’m now being pressured in to a marriage from you know where, i live at home with just my elderlly mother for whom i’d do anything BUT the thought of going to pakistan is chokeing me,dont really know what to do,i agree that marriage should now be considered but to a women with no western know how i find hard to fathom,and in the same breath turn mother down only ever dated 1 asian girl which i lost through my own childish ways even though i was only 18[never really forgave myself for loseing her and do still at this age miss her though she is now married and HAPPY]so never dated another,had english girlfriends which have worked great as i personally dont think there is any harm in mixing,i consider it evolving meeting someone differant race colour learn new things,but but but this is now doing my head in i’ve booked to go by the end of march thinking that i must give it a chance as this maybe the path i have to travell and for my ma’s sakeb whom i trully adore but this is divideing us:(
i feel you man, i never dated a desi girl:( . Get married while you still can. Ma ka kehna mano.