A confused and split personality

[Devoted2Allah]

Re: A confused and split personality

@MehnazQ

Girls in Pakistan aren’t backwards … in some places, they can be more western than girls living in the west. You should give it a chance. Just because you are going to Pakistan doesn’t mean that you will be forced into a marriage. Get a feel of what the girls there are like before making any final decisions.

Also, can’t you ask your ammi to find you a ‘nice’ girl in the UK?

You also need to let go of your first love. Learn from it and move on … it’s been over ten years and like you have said, she’s moved on and is happily married … time for you to learn from your mistakes and forgive yourself.

i agree…pray Isthikharah make lots of dua and InshAllah you will come to a good decision!