Re: A Compatible Match
Not wisdom…wisdom comes with experience.
To put it bluntly:
If you want educated people to find your sister marriageable…she needs to be able to bring something to the table. Plus, a lot of people are thinking of their futures when rishta hunting. People think about what their potential partner might do if something happened to them…would she be able to support herself and a family? Relying on an online business as everything isn’t going to cut it. Added to this…if I am looking for an educated guy to be the father of my children…isn’t the guy also looking for the same for his future children?
I once knew a family like this…they were really nice people but as we got older their beliefs shifted and we had to distance ourselves due to this. They made all their daughters quit school in their senior year and felt their girls were too masoom for colleges. Strange part is, they all got married to men who agreed with their parents and now the parents somehow support their daughters, their husbands and grandkids. Input = output.
This is America…people don’t keep their daughters home because of the big bad university anymore and they find people who do…backward.