A choice

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Re: A choice

@PyariCgudia

I dunno, I have a good friend who is probably gay whether he knows it or not.

He’s been trying to show interest, poor thing, he doesn’t have very good mac daddy skills.

And I figure sometimes, if nothing else works out, I might give him some come hither signals, and just swallow the khatti medication of life, and just let him be my back-up in life. shrugs

Marriage isn’t necessarily about the sex, it’s also just about companionship and family, and gay guys have been known to have sex with women and father children, although it may have been a tough process for them.

Marriage today is a choice, not an obligation. Women prayed to make this happen for centuries. I’m glad you realize it’s not just about sex as that is what many, many folks in our community are solely motivated by. There is no reason today that anyone should get married unless you have a crazy mental and emotional connection with someone who helps you grow and vice versa. No other reason why you’re made legally bound to someone and have to share fifty percent of all their life’s BS.

You speak about companionship. What kind of companionship do you hope for by marrying and therefore sleeping with a guy that is gay. You don’t do it for him. He looks at you 24/7 and you just don’t do it for him.