Maham, I think this is a balance thing and in each marriage there is a different balance. I truly believe that for a marriage to be feel fresh and alive it is important that the husband and wife take some time off from each other as well. And the ppl that existed in his/her life still exist and its necessary to give them time and attention as well. When the wife takes time out and goes to beauty salon/parlour.... the guy can use that time to meet/catch up with his friends. In terms of going to each other's parents home, compromise can be reached that the girl can spend time at her parent's home when he is working late.... that way both of them can be in their home at the same time.... and once a week get together with his and her family for dinner or lunch isn't a difficult chore.... it does take some time for the husband and wife to realize what is important to the other......
ya but the issue is those people like yr friends lol rite now they r saying this later on they are not gonna talk about it but complain about it...and have bitter memories abt their marriage and how they only sacrificed n all that.
yeah ia gree.....and i feel girls of our country are overly husband driven, which is not bad, but at times its irritating......like sometimes if u have to be out with friends then there is nothign wrong with that.........but they dont understand.......
ya….but ofcourse there are going to be change and both should be ready and adaptable to it.
Excuse me? I don’t think that’s necessarily love if you can’t leave your spouse alone. It very well could mean you don’t have trust in them or are too possessive about them. As for the examples I gave well they might be exaggerated a bit but the reality is not far from it. If this happens in the initial years than that’s even worse because than after few years they blame each other for having given up their individual life lol…and hence in the end they think they only gave in for the marriage, which isn’t a happy thought.
just the fact that everyone has a right over you…your wife, your parents, your siblings, your friends and you should be have a place for everyone in your life.
yes and my parents have no problem with my husband being with me every time they see me, thank God. they know that i share everything with him.
my friends??? the ones who are my friends also don't have issues with my husband. and if they want me to pick, i will always pick him.
my siblings also don't have issues with my husband.
i don't see why its so important to spend time with other people without your significant other. if anything, it brings everyone together.
yeah ia gree.....and i feel girls of our country are overly husband driven, which is not bad, but at times its irritating......like sometimes if u have to be out with friends then there is nothign wrong with that.........but they dont understand.......
maybe if they don't want to hang out with their friends. . . they don't really like their "friends" and maybe the friends should take a hint?
While being with ur spouse is cool and all.... i find those couples who are constantly texting each other or talking to each other on the fone when they're with their frends are VERY annoying. Then again my reference/experience was with a few HS couples..so i'm sure things are different between actual couples