Re: A balanced married n social life...
know your limits.. every relationship has limits.. and for Allah's sake take life a little easier on yourself and make ur marriage a fun relationship.. treat him/her as a best friend and i am sure you will go the distance..
there is a saying at work that we use a lot regarding web developerment -- dont' worry too much about scalability issues...
i think the same goes for marriage.. dont' worry too much about long term/going the distance.. focus on short term goals and your long term will work out just fine..
fikar karnay sey sirf baal safaid hotay hain.. ;)