would like their women or partners (i dont discriminate) to be shiny skinny pretty little things whilst their own so called looks and wieght issues are highly questionable?
is that true?
this is according to my daddi, she believes this to be true, men need a shiny trophy. I would like to know why.
I’m in the 1% that differs. My policy to wife weight is that I will maintain the same weight relative to the day of marriage as my wife, onthe basis that at the time of getting married we are both comfortable with how each other look.
So then if my wife puts on 2kg, I’ll eat ice cream till I do the same.
If she puts on 10 kg, I’ll do the same.
If she puts on 25kg, I’ll eat and eat and eat away until I match her.
I am very health concious and i would expect my spouse to be one too. Fitness, strength and stamina ( ;) ) matter more than just the artificial term : "weight" .
but after giving me a long lecture on how one should care more about a person’s heart and emotions than looks when i told my pathan that i didnt like white color on men, he said that my hips were tooo small
i dont think he realised that he was commenting on my looks. hypocrites
^ ^ my bad i didnt read the later part of original sentence i.e. “whilst their own so called looks and wieght issues are highly questionable?” . my google style reading to be blamed.
But still, jaise even gareeb aadmi ko bhi sapne dekhne ka haq hai waise hi even a not so good lo oking guy has a right to wish for a beautiful girl. If he can get it then there’s nothing wrong with it. (as long as he doesnt use wrong ways)
My example, i would love to marry anglina jolie even tho i dont look like brad pitt.
same with you, dont tell me you wont like to have your favorite movie star/Model as your partner.
I knew you will say that. I mentioned tv stars to mean beautiful girls and boys. Replace brad pitt with a handsome guy and anglina jolie with a beautiful girl and read my post again.
No no no. It’s not that my weight should match hers, it’s instead relative to the weight we will have when married. So if she gains 5 kg from whatever weight she was when married, then I get to gain 5kg too, regardless of what my original weight was
Miss M, you northerners are such a distrusting lot